[Oh, oh. Well. He'll just. Conveniently let Ydris have the wrong idea, it might be a useful tool for later...]

I'll hold you to it.

[Through no efforts besides being loud and annoying, but still.]

It's not that confusing. Humans are social animals, but have individual identities. That's not contradictory at all, it just means part of life is getting along with and helping others.