You will change as far as the world demands of you. In some cases, these is barely notable. In others, it is like becoming a new person. [Ives is known for telling the truth, not telling it gently or with much tact. Those are the facts of the matters; it's arbitrary.]

The only way to know is to wait and see. I cannot tell what you are becoming, bundled up like that. [he makes no move to try and uncover her, in fact he's stone still to talk with her. Ives stands like he's wound so tight he'll snap at any moment. Not precisely an comforting posture... but his tone is level and he speaks very calmly]